It’s June already…..and everywhere is reminding me that means it’s nearly Fathers Day. Now, I’m in two minds about this. On the one hand it’s great that fathers are being given recognition. But on the other hand, it’s simply commercialism and reinforces differences between mothers and fathers. I apply these thoughts to Mothers Day too.
A brief conversation with my 10 year old daughter this morning highlights the reason for my concern. I asked her to draw a picture with a baby for Fathers Day. In checking what my creative brief actually was, she suggested that she would draw a picture of a baby with a mother. Why, I wanted to know. “Because mothers should hold babies first, babies need to get to know the mother so that they can feed, fathers can hold the baby at home.”
I laughed – quite horrified, and we then had a bit of a debate. Despite my being the champion of fluid gender roles, I am the primary carer and that’s what my daughter sees. So, if my daughter thinks mothers and fathers should have different behaviour at such an early stage in parenting, my family still has a very long way to go in contributing to cultural changes about shared parenting!
Do your children see mothers and fathers as different?
Do you think Mothers Day and Fathers Day should be celebrated separately (or even at all)?
Leave your comments and vote in my poll on the left-hand sidebar.
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Fathers Story Week 14-20 June
Get involved! The Fatherhood Institute (and partner organisations) has launched a website to encourage educational organisations to focus on fathers for one week. Fathers Story Week runs from 14-20 June 2010, and the website offers a number of free resources and ideas for all children up to Key Stage 2. The week also includes a Bring Your Dad to School Day on Fri 18 June where children can dress up as their dad (or other father figure) and maybe bring him along on the school run too.
Pass this link onto your local school or child care provider and encourage them to get involved. Tell your employers about it too, so that they can encourage dads to take part.
More details can be found at http://www.fathersstoryweek.org/.
Pass this link onto your local school or child care provider and encourage them to get involved. Tell your employers about it too, so that they can encourage dads to take part.
More details can be found at http://www.fathersstoryweek.org/.
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